True love before marriage

[ar]

Love before marriage is just a nice word to hide or camouflage your misdeed, flirt or sin.

Actual test to check true love, is starts after marriage when two person start their practical life because love is not business nor its only name of entertainment nor it happen only for few weeks or months …person who walk with you support you in your blue days as well as in golden days with heart and soul are actually loves you.

Someone who interested in touching you spending time with you before marriage is not sincere with you or not truly loving you because if he loves you he will sure respect you and worried for your repute and never want to do or perform any such acts which cause offense or disrespect for you.

What happening right now are most people trying to follow western culture where there is no respect of wife /girl ….girl is just like a football sometime in Mr. A hands sometimes in Mr. B hands this chain starts from her very early golden age and ends at her dark age there is no concept of family in west.

Girl friends boyfriends are now essential part/time passing activity of our generation one who dose not has gf/bf are suppose to be poor or backward people of the society its become an abuse if one don’t have bf or gf ,now girls and boys go educational institute just to meet or make fool their so called spouse . Girls who already listened so many flirt story are trusting in her bf that may be one day he will accept her as a wife and make her his respect their answer is all man are not flirt but it’s a Big stupidity of her but even then they are doing all such activities many also adopt wrong way and miss used by her bf, they always give them different types of excuses like let me stand on my feet’s then I‘ll talk with my parents and so many other.

Instead of doing affairs or making bf and use as a tissue paper and become black listed and get hurt It’s much better to be sited at your parent’s home and wait for right one to come no matter early or late what matter is your respect /repute which has to be saved.

It’s my sincere message for both boys and girls that yes there should be your personal likeness and willing is must but one should chose his / her life partner through our old tradition (means in presence and willing of their parents) rather than to make friend then affair then dating then marriage by miracle such type of marriages are not long lasting first of all mostly affairs ends up before marriage and girl got stamp that she had a affair she is no more clean.

Thanks for reading.
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[Guest]

I believe love before marraige is essential. Love does not mean sex or being physical. Its convergence of feelings of friendship, respect,tolerance between two individuals. In todays fast paced life were materialistic possessions are given more importance love between two people before marraige only makes them realise that materialistic possessions are not the only things to strive in life. We find young couples opting for divorce for flimsy reasons thereby insulting the Institution call marraige. Love teaches to accept the other person to understand to guide to share with other person thereby adding stability, strength and continuity to a relationship.
I am no advocate of Pre-Marital Sex but at the same time if two consulting adults agree to explore their feelings physically then there is nothing wrong in it too. If they do so responsibly then it is love and if they do so only for the physical satisfaction or to check on their sexuality then it would be lust (pure animal instincts) In todays times compatibility too plays a very important role for a relationship. Your interactions, physical touches(non-sensual) only makes you aware about your true feelings. Waiting to feel that kind of feelings to develop after marraige is like hitting in the dark.