Make yourself needed......

[Lavender girl]

Has anyone ever told you " I need You?"


I would like to hear your answer if I were beside you. I really want to hear the word "yes" from you.

Because then, you're needed by someone. For now at least only one or two people may need you.

But, later, the whole community will need you.

Society will then say, " we need you"..................Do you want others to need you??



To be needed you don't necessarily have to be a social worker. It's simple than you think, because in this world people claim " nothing is impossible"

If that is so, why can't you make your presence felt to society. You have to first believe in yourself.

Do it step by step...

Start from one person closest to you in life.

Shall I tell you who's your best friend..who you're believing in and who you lovemore than any one else in the world?
It's you

yes, its you. no one else...................

You may argue with me. "no , it's my loved one, my parents, my husband, my wife , so and so forth.

But if you look at your inner self, it will tell you, whom you care for, whom you believe in, whom you love more than any one in the world.
As I said earlier, you can first serve the one closest to you, thats you.
That means you have to take good care of yourself first, including your health, your abilities, your creativity, your career and everything else. Do something to improve your self. If you don't have much educational qualification, gear up to be qualified.

The importance of serving yourself means that. If you don't treat your self properly, you don't treat others. If you don't take good care of your self, you can never care for another person.If you're not educated, you cant educate others.That's why I said you have to serve yourself first.
Its the most beautiful compensation process of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.


Who's next?

Aha, then comes your most loved so and so in your life.


Your service

Serving and helping others will definitely give comfort to your mind. You do like to see the satisfaction in them which comes out in form of a smile between their lips. Don't you like to see the difference in you, your manners, your inner peace by helping others.

There are numerous ways to serve others. You can give a cheerful smile which can heal a person physically. You can guide a person from wrong path to the correct path, by teaching good manners, disciplines, rules and regulations of life and so on. Your verbal assistant may be very important at times when someone needs a guidance or encouragement.

They can be in need of your precious time and energy as well. To be a real friend, as the saying goes " A friend in need is a friend indeed"

Leave a footprint

Leave a footprint in the sands of time. Let people talk about ur service even after your death.

"what we have done for ourselves alone dies with us, what we have done for others and the world remains and is immoral"
Make a purpose in life to do some service to others for their well-being.

Servicing others is one of your responsibilities. Being grateful for any help you offer is the responsibility of the recipient. Perhaps the person to whom you rendered help may not be grateful to you.

"Do everything with a mind that lets go. Don't expect praise or reward"
If you expect gratitude for your help, you may be discouraged to continue your admirable work of helping others. "Serving others not expecting a favor in return is really a noble quality of a man"


You cant be selfish

You have to eliminate the negative factor of being selfish in order to service others. If you're selfish , your mind doesn't let you be generous.To be fair and final commandment for those who would be useful and helpful to others.

So start now to do at least a little favor to another person creating goodwill and lifting his spirits.

"Sow good service, sweet remembrances will grown from then"

[srabon]

Good post. Thanks a lot.

[sunny]

Simply awesome...... Words cannot express my deep appreciation to u for this great post!! thanks a lot... Keep it up! Btw, there is too little difference between ego n self respect. So its good to be selfish sometimes.....

[suchitra]

Sparing no pains in appreciating u 2 the fullest xtent, there u r, right on top!

[ujala]

Lavender girl ..................very decent ,,,,informative ,,,,,,,,,,,,,n touchy post dear

[admin]

words beautifully laid down to make this article alive

[Lavender girl]

My heartiest thanks to all of u dear ones....all ur words mean a lot for me....Pls accept my heartfelt thanx.......