How to WIN HER Heart!!!

[genial.soul]

Your woman needs you to always excite her.
Just like men, women tend to get bored rather quickly and they enjoy the excitement of the chase.

Whatever you do or say never seems good enough for her. Females appear to be insatiable in their demands. What your woman really needs is for you to always excite her. Just like men, women tend to get bored rather quickly and they enjoy the excitement of the chase. If you play hard to a subtle way and constantly prove to her that you are special - then you will have her longing for your company and savoring every minute she shares with you.

How to Get Her
First impressions really count so if you are in courting stage, you have to trade very carefully. The most important thing is to take it very slowly. Take time to get to know her and make her interested in you. Romantic dinners are always a sure thing, but be creative and take her on the kind of date she's never been on before, something exciting and thrilling, something to remember. Make her feel special but at the same time, tease her. Always make her aware that others want you, but you shouldn't actually go out with them. Let her know you choose to be with her but that if you ever wanted, you could have plenty of action. You will excite the female competitive imagination by being a "catch" desirable to others. Women love guys who make them laugh, if humor comes naturally to you great. If not, try and make an effort. (you can always recite jokes from the Internet).
You should ignite a lady's desire slowly but surely. Female pleasure is like a flower it needs water, warmth and sunshine. Trying to jump in bed with her straight away is a big mistake. This will make her feel cheap and make you seem desperate. Delaying foreplay builds up and expands her excitement. Let her know that you desire her in the way you look at her and touch her.


How to Keep Her
Its hard work to win her over, but once you have don't think that you can sit down comfortably with your feet up. The chase is over, and everything is going great but the challenge now is to keep the initial excitement of the relationship. Many couples break up because they can't handle losing the intensity that keep them together at the beginning. Boredom can make even the most sincere woman yearn to run off and get into trouble.

SEVEN WAYS IN WHICH YOU CAN KEEP THE FIRE BURNING:

1. Give her the attention she deserves
you can still play hard-to-get, but don't be inaccessible. Women do indeed love a challenge, but the truth is that absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder, it makes it wander! She needs to chase you but if you disappear, she has nothing to chase. So pay attention to her! Your kids, career, hobbies and friends all demand you attention....and they deserve it, but so does she. Make a special effort to spend quality time with her and do things you know that she enjoys. Now that you have her heart, you have to keep it but letting her know she has yours. Keep in mind that often a woman cheats not because she wants a new sex partner but because her regular partner isn't paying attention.

2. Excite her with surprises
Don't make her life dull with routine. Always come up with new things to do together. Book a romantic holiday in a place that you've heard her talk about and tell her the night before. Don't only take her on special occasions, make outings spontaneous and always go to different places. Leave her a rose or a romantic note on her pillow. Anything that is done on a regular basis should be done in different ways so that nothing becomes predictable and boring.

3. Flirt
Let her know that you can still attract other women. A little tasteful public exhibitionism, sexy clothing, intimate or wild dancing or mild flirting will make her feel some jealousy, this is health in a relationship in small doses. It is not a good idea if she is the extremely jealous type though! Just be sure, when you're flirting with others, to keep it light. Let her know the show is for her. Different women have different tolerance levels, so you and your partner should reach an understanding of what's exciting, what's okay and what's definitely not okay. You will be in zesty yet secure relationship.

4. Excite her with your intelligence
Being a stud in bed is an advantage, but what about the rest of the time? A woman needs intellectual stimulation just as much as sexual stimulation. Debating and discussing important issues is always a good way to pass some time. Stun her with your knowledge and insight, but don't pretend to know something you don't. Make an effort by reading and keeping up to date with all the latest developments,. You should always listen to what she has to say as well, don't let her feel insignificant. You intelligence infuses your love life with humor, meaning excitement.

5. Don't cheat on her
If you have a monogamous relationship, keep it that way. When you have a secret love affair, she can feel the lose of your excitement. Real infidelity is a betrayal, and that's not very exciting: It's depressing. If you cheat on her and she finds out, there will be a constant strain between you. She may forgive you, but she will never forget. She may or may not make a big deal out of it, but be assured that deep down she will be deeply hurt. The easiest way to add spice to your life is by having sex with a new person. But you can find newness with your permanent partner in so many ways.
In order to stop her from cheating, change you look occasionally, vary your style from glamorous to sweet to intellectual to businesslike to spiritual to sexy. Pretend that you are other men when you make love. Why would she want to be with anyone else when she has so many in you?

6. Make love, not war
Women appreciate someone who is thoughtful, kind, gentle and considerate. Gestures such as cooking dinner, cleaning up and taking care of kids will certainly earn you brownie points. Give her some space and let her spend some time with her friends and family. Don't let her feel as if she is a prisoner in your relationship. Try to give encouragement instead of condoning her. Don't complain - explain, communication is very important. If something is bothering you about the relationship, talk it out in a mature manner instead of ranting and raving.

7. Learn to really listen
Sometimes when a women come to a man with a problem, they throw them a solution and think that they have done a world of good. In fact, many women are more open about feelings than men. A woman talks about her problems because she needs to talk about her feelings. In return, she just needs you to listen and understand her. Instead of giving her advice that she doesn't need, learn to listen and comfort her with a hug or a dear kiss. Giving a woman tender loving care when she is upset can erase all her grief.