Weather the Elements of Love, That Is (Very True)

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Where there’s smoke, there's FIRE!

Aries, Leo and Sagittarius (also know as The Fire Signs) can sizzlewith passion. They also tend to be impulsive, driven and lovers of thethrill of the chase.

When romancing a Fire Sign, it's of utmost importance to know howto maintain his or her interest. The Fire Signs love a challenge,especially in the romance department. The problem is that because theybecome bored far more easily than most other signs of the zodiac, theycan be easily distracted when a new challenge comes along. Because ofthis, in order to keep your Fire Sign interested, you’ve also got tokeep them guessing. In other words, predictability isn’t part of thepackage when it comes to someone of this element. To set a Fire Sign’sheart ablaze, you’ve got to fan the flames!

On the upside (or at least the side where you don’t have to work ashard), Fire Signs enjoy new experiences and make exciting partners. Ifyou need a party date, a Fire Sign is the one to call; they’re usuallygreat conversationalists. On that note, they also have a hard timeresisting a playful sparring session. In fact, to a Fire Sign, it's thebest kind of foreplay! In short, while it’s important not to be boring,with a Fire Sign, you’ll never be bored either. Charismatic andcharming, they own (and expect to be) the center of attention.

If you're looking for romantic sparks, a Fire Sign is one hot ticket.

Exploring the FIRE Signs

LEO is the most romantic of the Fire Signs, but the lion’s desirefor romance is only equal to his or her need for drama. Charming scenestealers who love the spotlight, they’re also steadfast believers inthe concept of true love and can be easily swept off their feet by bigdisplays of affection. They have sensitive egos and require a lot ofaffection and attention in a relationship.

Motto: Love will conquer all.

SAGITTARIUS can be themost fun among the Fire Signs since they're always up for an adventure.A relationship with a Sagittarius rarely gets stale, but they are mostdifficult to pin down because they do not like to settle down. Whenyou're dealing with a Sagittarius, the thrill of the chase is of utmostimportance, so it’s important to always keep them on their toes.

Motto: The grass is always greener.

ARIES is the mostindependent of the Fire Signs and is thereby likely to appear detached,which they sometimes are. However, Aries does welcome a challenge andwill chase someone in whom they’re interested. Aries often view love asa game and flirtations are all part of it. Usually possessors of agreat sense of humor, an Aries can keep you laughing. However, you'llhave to be the flexible one in a relationship because this sign willnot easily compromise his or her lifestyle for anyone.

Motto: Love is fun, but not required.

Down to EARTH…

Like a rocket scientist, the Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo andCapricorn) are logical, pragmatic and dependable. They are the mostbottom-line oriented of the entire zodiac. Being the highly rationaltype, individuals born under an Earth Sign cannot relate to irrationaloutbursts or be bothered by frivolity. What they value and seek aresecurity and stability.

When romancing an Earth Sign, dependability is vital - andpunctuality scores extra. You can always count on an Earth Sign to dowhat they say, but keep in mind they will expect the same from you inreturn. And should you fail an Earth Sign, you'll be hard pressed togain back his or her confidence or trust. Earth Signs have littlepatience for silliness, detest drama (especially in relationships) andlike to see results in whatever they've invested their precious time.So don't waste your time - or your Earth Sign's - by crying overspilled milk. If you're looking for sympathy here, you won't get it.And remember, this common sense individual does not get in arelationship simply for a good time. In fact, they see all theirrelationships as serving some practical purpose in life.

Exploring the EARTH Signs

TAURUS is the most loyalof the Earth Signs and can be counted on for their reliability.However, you two had better be honest and committed because if a Taurusfeels there is an issue of trust in a relationship, this bull willbolt! Stability craving Taurus is also the most romantic andaffectionate of the Earth Signs and you can usually get to their heartsvia their stomachs. One caution: never push a Taurus. The bull sign isvery stubborn, and as the most hardheaded Earth Sign, the more you push- the more the bull will resist. To keep your Taurus happy, the keyelements are food, comfort and plenty of hugs.

Motto: Feed me and I'm yours.

VIRGO is the mostlogical of the Earth Signs. They are not only analytical and rationalbut also everybody's biggest critic, so don't be surprised if they’reconstantly critiquing you! On the upside, Virgo will work hard andexamine all avenues in order to solve a problem. And while they maylove to argue, they don't see it as a confrontation or attack butsimply an exchange of ideas. Don't try to persuade a Virgo withoutgrounding yourself in solid reasoning; it’ll never fly. Likewise,highly charged emotions or irrationality will cause your Virgo to losepatience quickly. What your Virgo requires is a lot of mentalstimulation – intellectual conversation is their most excitingaphrodisiac, especially if they're learning something new.

Motto: Stimulate the mind and the body will follow.

CAPRICORN is the most practicalof the Earth Signs as well as one of the most hardworking and ambitioussigns of the entire zodiac. Even as a newlywed, don't be surprised ifyour Capricorn seems preoccupied with career. They are not known to beromantics, nor are they into emotions. But, they are excellentproviders, protectors, and go to guys/girls. Capricorns value loyaltyand are quick to defend those they love. Achievement- oriented bynature, they put an importance on status and material success. The moreyou can aid and support a Capricorn's interests and ambitions, thefaster you'll win his or her heart.

Motto: You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours.

Coming up for AIR

As ephemeral as a summer breeze, AIR SIGNS (Gemini, Libra,Aquarius) are the most social creatures of the zodiac, and their sociallives are an important part of their identity. Craving constantvariety, they are typically not disciplined individuals, and while theyare far from afraid to commit, they may not be cut out for it, as theycan be superficial in their emotional development. While they may notbe the best life partners, Air Signs are fun and lively companionswhose unique charm may sweep you off your feet. When it comes to thisbreezy bunch, think energy… and sometimes, style rather than substance.

When romancing an Air Sign, don't let things get too habitual oryour Air Sign may blow past, moving onto someone new, simply forchange. Since Air Signs tend to be fickle, keep yours busy - andtherefore happy - with little surprises and a good shakeup ofvenue/attitude/ activity every now and then. The Air Signs embracespontaneity, need mobility, and demand action. If you're up for anexciting challenge, let an Air Sign carry you away in his or herwhirlwind.

Exploring the AIR Signs

GEMINI is the most adaptable of the Air Signs. They arefriendly, flexible and charming - Gemini can fit in with most anycrowd. Quick thinking and quick to speak, a Gemini can jump into anyconversation with ease and just as easily hop from topic to topic. Thesign of the Twins has the ability to see opposing viewpoints, andtherefore, is often willing to compromise in an argument. However, aGemini can change his or her mind at the drop of a hat, and often does.This may make them appear fickle or two-faced, and trying to keep upwith their changing opinions may drive you crazy. Keep in mind thatyour Gemini is a natural born talker and can put a spin on any storythat benefits them. They can also be easily distracted and need morevariety than the other Air Signs. But they make fun and stimulatingpartners, ideal travel companions and stimulating conversationalists.Spontaneous and up for any change in plans, a Gemini loves to meet newpeople and see new places. After all, the Twins are born to have dualidentities.

Motto: Variety is the spice of life.

LIBRA is the mostcharming (and likely to be partnered up) of the Air Signs. The sign ofthe Scales seeks out harmony and balance, and shrinks from conflict anddiscord. Don't create drama or put things in disarray if you want tokeep your Libra happy. He or she would rather compromise than fight inorder to keep the peace. For a Libra, companionship is a must. TheScales need another person in their life to feel balanced. If you needa dinner date that won't upstage or, worse, embarrass you, call aLibra. They are adept at the social graces, and making others feel atease. They know how to behave properly given any situation. Theirpleasant demeanor charms them into favor, which makes them even morecharming. But, take note, their charm and magnetism can lead toindiscreet situations since people are constantly drawn to them,creating frequent temptations. Aesthetics play an important role forLibra who seeks out visual harmony and balance. You may find moreLibras than any other sign who are artistically inclined.

Motto: Can't we all just get along?

AQUARIUS is the mostunconventional of the Air Signs as well as one of the most unique andindependent of the zodiac. Don't tell your Aquarius what to do or howto do it. They have their own way of doing things and no one can tellthem otherwise. Commonly described as obstinate and unorthodox, theAquarian delights in being different and going against the grain. Theycan stir up trouble just for the sake of it. Conspiracy theories,personal philosophies… Aquarians love their own groove/routine whetherit makes sense to anyone else or not. Leave your Aquarian plenty ofspace to do his or her own thing and if you're understanding andaccepting of their idiosyncrasies, as well as supportive of theircauses and beliefs, you'll keep him or her happy. Aquarians areextremely social beings with lots of contacts. They can be spontaneous,stimulating and very interesting partners.

Motto: Don't tread on me.

Under WATER

The WATER Signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) are the mostsensitive, emotional and romantic of the zodiac. They are dreamers whoneed a sympathetic ear, compassion and tender loving care. A Water Signloves to be in love, and enjoys getting lost in the experience of love.A Water Sign seeks a spiritual connection with their lover, akin to atranscendental journey. However, lofty notions of love can color aWater Sign's judgment. The mythic fairy tale romance can sometimesleave them disappointed by the reality of relationships.

When romancing a Water Sign, it's important to do the little thingsthat show you care. Surprise your Water Sign with small romanticgestures and it'll go a long way. Ignore their emotional needs and yourWater Sign's love may fade away. But if you're sensitive to your WaterSign's changing moods and emotions, your relationship should proceedswimmingly.

Exploring the WATER Signs

CANCER is the homebody of the Water Signs. Many Cancershave a strong connection with their parents. They are also the moodiestof the Water Signs because Cancer's emotions are constantly goingthrough different phases, like the moon, which is their ruling planet.Therefore, it can be difficult to predict your Cancer's moods. As trustis tantamount to Cancers, you must earn a crab's trust before they willexpose their soft core. Comfort and security is also important in apartner to Cancers. They are perfectly content staying home with goodfood and someone they love, as a Cancer's home serves as their safehaven. Like a crab, they can appear tough on the outside, but are quitevulnerable beneath their shell. Thus, penetrating the shell requirespatience and sensitivity. Cancers have a need to nurture the ones theylove and need some nurturing in return. So, make your Cancer feelloved, secure and protected, and they'll never leave home.

Motto: Home is where the heart is.

SCORPIO is the mostintense of the Water Signs. They may seem calm and placid on thesurface, but you can be assured that there are strong emotionssimmering just below the waterline, and they are often driven by theseunderlying emotions. Typically, Scorpios are very serious individualswho take their relationships just as serious, expecting complete,unequivocal loyalty. If you want to get anywhere with a Scorpio, do notcross them. If you do, it may take a lifetime for your Scorpio toforgive you, as they will never forget it. Scorpios have a tendency tobe possessive, territorial and jealous. And because they do not usuallyreveal all that they are thinking, they can appear mysterious. Neverone to naturally tip their hand, it takes extra effort to get into thehead of your Scorpio. It takes time to develop a relationship with aScorpio, but once you do, they can be one of the most intenselypassionate lovers you will ever know because they aren't afraid toexpress their intensity. Demonstrate to your Scorpio that he or she isyour number one priority, and your Scorpio will be forever yours --with a passion!

Motto: Still waters run deep.

PISCES is the mostcompassionate of the Water Signs. They are also the most intuitive andself-sacrificing of the zodiac as they are often willing to foregotheir own interests for their partner's interests. More than any othersign, Pisces are keenly in tune with other people's emotions, which canbe both good and bad. They pick up on the vibrations of the othersaround them like emotional sponges, and therefore, they can be highlyinfluenced by others. Therefore, Pisces do not handle the negativeemotions well. To compound things, they can be highly impressionable,so if you're feeling upset, your Pisces will too. Perhaps, this is whythe Pisces are the real dreamers of the zodiac, preferring fantasy tothe real world and getting lost in fantasies. So, put on a happy face,surround your Pisces with positive people, shielding them from theharsh realities of the world, and you'll keep your Pisces happy as aclam -- or fish.

Motto: I dream, therefore I am.