When it is that time for the women to get together and discuss their men among themselves, there are repeating patterns in what they talk about, with someone invariably commenting, "Why do they do that?", the term "they" standing for their man in particular and all men in general. So I thought of telling you some dos and don'ts that almost always comes up in a conversation centered on me.
1) Be romantic!
Women love sentimental and pulp stuff. So when Saint Valentine's Day is just round the corner go to florist, pick up the freshest blooms for your girl and have delivered to her with the note saying, "The perfection of the flowers matches the perfection in you." This would be a far better idea than picking up flowers and a card on your way home from office. Now I will share something that needs no further explanation - please do not EVER have your secretary, sister, mother, or girl friend to get a gift for your girl. They are very much off limits.
2)Don't expect too much!
Do not always fuss about the things that you have done. Mankind dinner for women, with a face that expects something (while you are dressed in a pair of nice boxer shorts) is not a romantic subtlety at all. This will just go down the drain.
It will be over even before it starts if you make a woman feel that you have done something extraordinary through an act of love, and that its payback time for her.
3)Laugh! It turns her on.
Laughing is not bad at all. "A sense of humor" tops the chart of favorable qualities that a woman looks for in a man. You would be right to think that what gals think of is a hunk, but it's also true that the quality of humor works really like magic in a man. Laugh at yourself too.
4)Listen and Talk.
Do not restrict your conversations to your work, your needs, what you like and what you do not like. Sit together and share her wishes, hopes and dreams too. Lend your ear. This can be a tough nut to crack for most men, and women know they have lost you when after the first ten minutes of talking your eyes are misty and your mind is elsewhere. At least you can act as if you are attentive and this would be a super hit with women.
5)Revel with a woman's Jewelry.
Women get the right to flaunt and brag about jewelry. So anytime anywhere, just make them a present and they would be more than happy. I hope that these little tips to get a peek into a woman's mind help you. If you want to throw away your boxer shorts, then try one or two of these treats I can promise you will be a happy man.
Qualities Which Women Look in Men
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