Flirting Is A Way To Meet Potential Mates........

sheeza · Extreme Poster Joined: 06 Oct 2007 Posts: 2487 Gender:

Flirting is a way to meet potential mates and see if they are compatible. In some situations, such as at a dance or a party, flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know and might not otherwise ever see again. Because of all of this, flirting is a very important skill, and it's one that makes a lot of people nervous. There is an art to flirting, though, and it's an art that can be learned. Here are some pointers.

Flirting Is A Way To Meet Potential Mates

10. Flirting Is An Attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive — it works!

9. Start A Conversation: The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help or state an opinion.

8. Have Fun: Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show a little of your vulnerability.

7. Use Props: Never leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include dogs, unusual jewellery, a fabulous scent, interesting ties, hats or an interesting book or newspaper.

6. Be The Host: Change your behaviour from guest to host. You are not a passive person waiting around for romance; instead, you're the welcome committee.

5. Make The First Move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello.

4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. People will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard.

Flirting Is A Way To Meet Potential Mates

3. Eye Contact: Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than a few seconds) and then glance away. Don’t stare — it’s a turn off.

2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment, the best response is a simple "Thank you!"

1. Smile: It's contagious. Smiling makes you so much more approachable